"The first week isn't about training — it's about trust." That's one of the first things Teri tells every C.A.Gs family before their Grey leaves for its new home, and it shapes everything we coach you through in the first month.
Week one — let them settle. Many first-time owners worry when their African Grey goes quiet for a few days, eating a little less and studying everything from a favorite perch. "Don't panic if your Grey acts like a little detective the first week," Teri explains. "They're incredibly intelligent — before they decide a new home is safe, they want to study everything, and everyone." Keep the cage in a calm, central room, offer the exact diet your C.A.Gs Grey is already eating, and let curiosity do the work. One recent family called Teri three days after bringing home their young Congo, worried it wasn't talking, wasn't playing much, and just sat near the cage door — her advice was simply, "Give him time. Sit nearby. Read a book. Let him watch you without pressure."
Weeks two to three — build trust. By the second week that same Congo was stepping up confidently and waiting at the cage door for the family each morning — the arc we see again and again. The bonding and step-up routine in our African Grey parrot care guide turns those first wary days into real trust: keep routines predictable, avoid overwhelming visitors, and start short, positive sessions — a favorite treat through the bars, then from your hand, then step-ups. Greys are sensitive and shut down under pressure, so reward and never punish. This is usually when the first mimicked sounds appear.
Week four and beyond — enrich and engage. Rotate foraging toys, puzzles, and safe novelty to keep that remarkable brain busy, aim for daily out-of-cage time, and book a wellness check with an avian veterinarian to establish care. Keep our number handy — Teri answers diet, behavior, and enrichment questions long after your bird comes home. As she puts it, "You're not just bringing home a pet — you're beginning a friendship that can last decades, and the first 30 days are the foundation for everything that comes after."